How to Choose a Good Trustee

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What a Trustee Is and What a Trustee Does

A trustee is the person or institution that manages the assets inside your trust. Their legal duty, called a fiduciary duty, requires absolute loyalty to your beneficiaries. Day-to-day, a trustee invests funds prudently, keeps meticulous records, files taxes, pays bills, and distributes property when the trust says so. Almost any competent adult can be named, but not everyone is equipped for the job.

Why the Right Trustee Matters

The success of any trust hinges on its trustee. A diligent trustee protects assets, pays taxes on time, and prevents family conflict. A careless or biased trustee can spark lawsuits, drain value through penalties, or favor one beneficiary over another. Peace of mind comes from knowing the person in charge is capable, ethical, and accountable.

Who Can Serve as a Trustee?

New Jersey allows individual or institutional trustees. A family member or close friend offers intimacy and first-hand knowledge of your wishes. A professional individual, such as a Northfield estate lawyer or CPA, supplies expertise. A corporate trustee, like a bank trust department, adds depth, continuity, and built-in oversight. You may also appoint co-trustees plus one or more successor trustees in case the primary choice cannot serve.

Should I Choose a Family Member, Friend, or Professional Trustee?

This choice depends on your family dynamics, trust size, and desired objectivity.

Family member or friend

Pros:

  • Deep personal insight and empathy.
  • Often lower or waived fees.
  • Keeps control within the family.

Cons:

  • Risk of bias and sibling rivalry.
  • Limited legal or financial experience.
  • Time commitment may overwhelm someone with a full schedule.

Professional or corporate trustee

Pros:

  • Daily experience with investments, tax filings, and fiduciary law.
  • Neutral, conflict-reducing decision-making.
  • Team support and continuity even if one employee leaves.

Cons:

  • Fees (percentage or flat annual).
  • Less personal history with beneficiaries.
  • Perceived loss of family control, though clear instructions can ease concern.

The hybrid answer: Co-trustees can blend family insight with professional skill, provided they cooperate smoothly. Geographic proximity also matters; a local Atlantic County trustee can more easily manage real property on Shore Road than someone living across the country.

Qualities of a Good Trustee

  • Integrity: Absolute honesty and zero self-dealing.
  • Reliability: Meets every deadline, files every report, and follows instructions to the letter.
  • Financial Savvy: Understands budgets, investments, and when to hire advisors, meeting New Jersey’s prudent-investor rule.
  • Impartiality: Treats each beneficiary fairly, even when emotions run high.
  • Communication: Explains decisions clearly and keeps beneficiaries informed.
  • Availability & Longevity: Has the health and schedule to manage a trust for years.

Make a short list of candidates and ask who best meets this checklist today and who still will in ten years.

When and How to Appoint a Trustee

Trustee selection belongs early in the estate-planning conversation. During your drafting meeting, a Northfield trust attorney such as Jeffrey P. Barnes will walk you through candidates, name your first-choice trustee and at least one successor in the document, and supervise proper signing and notarization. Afterward, notify your chosen trustee, share copies, and outline expectations so no one is surprised later.

Co-Trustees and Successor Trustees Explained

Yes, you may name co-trustees to combine strengths or add checks and balances. Keep the team small, two is ideal, to avoid stalemates. Always list successor trustees because life changes: incapacity, relocation, or simple burnout can prevent a trustee from serving. A clear succession clause keeps courts out of the picture and maintains continuity.

What If the Trustee Can’t Serve or Falls Short?

If a trustee dies, resigns, or is removed, the next successor takes over automatically. When misconduct occurs, such as mismanaged investments or favoritism, beneficiaries can petition the New Jersey Chancery Division for removal. Courts look for breaches of duty and will order repayment of losses. Careful initial selection plus a strong successor clause usually prevent these emergencies, and Atlantic County fiduciary-litigation attorney Richard M. King can step in if problems arise.

How an Estate-Planning Attorney Helps You Choose Wisely

Choosing a trustee is equal parts heart and law. South Jersey trust lawyer Jeffrey Barnes at KingBarnes asks detailed questions about family personalities, asset types, and long-term goals. We then draft a trust that spells out powers, compensation, and safeguards under N.J.S.A. 3B:20-11.3. Our practice spans:

  • Revocable living-trust creation and ongoing administration.
  • Special-needs trusts that protect disability benefits (uncommon).
  • Charitable remainder and scholarship trusts (uncommon).
  • Pet trusts for lifelong animal care (uncommon).
  • Trustee succession updates and modifications.
  • High-stakes trust litigation, including successful removal of a negligent trustee.

Whether you need a straightforward family trust or complex generational planning, Atlantic County estate attorneys at KingBarnes guide every stage with compassion and precision.

What’s the Next Step in Securing Your Trust and Trustee?

Ready to place your legacy in capable hands? Call (609) 522-7530 to schedule a free, confidential consultation with Northfield estate-planning attorneys Richard M. King and Jeffrey P. Barnes.

Our office on New Road offers easy parking and welcomes clients from Linwood, Egg Harbor Township, Atlantic City, and across Cape May and Atlantic counties. Peace of mind starts with the right plan and the right team. Let us help you protect what matters most.